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I overheard my partner Sean (aka Mr. Daytrotter) saying to someone who asked who I was, “That’s George, my partner, he does the hard stuff.”

The interesting thing about this is that I’ve said the same thing about Sean. I truly believe that it’s Sean who does the hard stuff.

To me this is in important element of a partnership.

If both partners think they do the hard stuff, or, worse, if one thinks *they* do the hard stuff, and their partner does the easy stuff, it ain’t gonna work.

Almost as bad is when both do the same stuff, and neither can do certain things. At that point, why have a partner at all?

This is true in biz and in relationships. I know definitively that my wife does the hard stuff by being a stay-at-home Mom with a husband who travels as much as I do.

I also know that while she could do what I do better than I do it, that she knows that I too do some hard stuff that she would rather do less than what she is doing (being a rock star Mom).

Value alignment is what makes relationships and businesses work. Having your values in line doesn’t mean you are the same as the other person, but rather that you understand and value your partner; that you have empathy, and that you are not ego driven, but rather driven by what you’re building – be it a biz or a family.

[apologies for typos and other crimes against grammar/prose - this was written on my phone while sitting at a bar during SXSW.]

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As longtime 9gs readers know, Henry used to provide the weather forecast.

(Newer readers (listeners) have gotten a taste of his vocal prowess via his performance on a recent song sketch that can be heard HERE.)

Well, he’s been promoted. A weatherman no more. Now he’s on to the financial markets.

Here is his first report:

This is not a suggestion to buy or sell any particular stock. You need to do your own investing, come up with your own rules and exit strategies, and be familiar with the risks of stock investment.

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It’s nice when songs make you think of someone very acutely. Even nicer when said songs make you think of your wife.

This one comes on, and all I feel is Marci:

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We spent Christmas with my parents at their beautiful new house on Squam Lake in NH.

There’s really nothing like skating on a frozen lake:

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A nice meal

We drove to my favorite farm on the Island yesterday afternoon. I coul spend all day at Fiddlehead Farm, but the natives were restless, and so – it being the 1st of August – I grabbed as many of the amazing tomatoes and ears of corn as I could hold. Some good bread and fresh mozzerella, and off we went.

I sliced the tomatoes in half, rubbed them withe evoo and s&p and put them on the grill with some bread. I put the corn in boiling water for one minute; then it too went on the grill. Once the tamatoes were charred and the skins slid off I chopped them up, and put them and the removed-from-the-cob corn kernels in a sauté pan (also on the grill) that had been sizzling on the grill with shallots and garlic in more evoo.

I cooked some pasta in the boilin salted water that had blanched the corn.

I took some of the toasted bread, rubbed some garlic on it, and put it in a bowl. Atop went the local greens, more tomatoes, mozerella, evoo, and red wine vinegar.

We ate outside.

I recount this sitting in an airport waiting for a delayed flight, and staring at a Dunkin Donuts kiosk that is making me sick.

I just read Micael Pollan’s new piece in the NYT, which describes us a culture of sort of food voyeurs; we watch cooking shows, but don’t cook.

I suppose like voyeurs of any stripe – people on the sidelines who critique, but don’t participate (a peeve of mine) – those who watch the cooking shoes while they eat take out or some microwaved crap are missing out.

For me, writing this post, about this nice, simple meal pulled me away from the airport, and brought me back – if only for a minute – to my wife, kids, and friends. No cooking show can do that.

Cook some food together.

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