Yet another day where the world offers more questions than answers. As the Boston authorities hunt for the missing bomber, we all hunt for meaning and reason.
Typically, my hunt involves writing; working through thoughts. That’s what this blog is for.
However, since Monday, I’ve not been able to do so.
I thought, therefore, “since I can’t write, I’ll read.” I went back and looked at some of the writing on this blog that occuoccured during other difficult times.
I’ve compiled some here, with links back to the original posts.
I was fortunate to hear Roger Brown, Berklee President, speak last week. He referenced the following quote by Reinhold Niebuhr:
Nothing worth doing is completed in our lifetime; therefore we must be saved by hope.
Nothing true or beautiful makes complete sense in any immediate context of history; therefore we must be saved by faith.
Nothing we do, however virtuous, can be accomplished alone; therefore, we are saved by love.
These are both exciting and stressful times for many people. Share your excitement; comfort those who are stressed.
“Technology alone is not enough. It’s technology married with the liberal arts, married with the humanities, that yields the results that makes our hearts sing.” — Steve Jobs
“If I were to wish for anything [it would be] for the eye which, ever young and ardent, sees the possible.” – Soren Kierkegaard [*]
I learn so much from my students. I’m currently teaching a wonderful group of seniors, and they’re naturally contemplating their next steps after graduation.
Recently, I was imploring them to develop their entrepreneurial pursuits even while they might be forced to take a less-than-ideal job immediately after graduation.
I told them that by developing their meaningful work while they were doing work simply to pay their bills (“The Sex and Cash Theory” so perfectly articulated by Hugh MacLeod) they would be able to more easily suffer the indignities which tend to be an axiomatic part of jobs done just for the cash.
I also told them that by making sure not to forget their purpose-driven ventures amidst their just-for-the-money jobs, they would be creating options for themselves.
As I said this, I looked at their faces and saw such possibility emanating from each of them, and I saw something else too. I paused for a moment and said something along the lines of: “Bitterness occurs when you don’t have options.”
This possibility — the virtually unlimited options awaiting these student, and their belief in that possibility, even if only for that moment — crowded out any hint of bitterness/cynicism from their faces (if it had been there at all).
I’ve reflected on this quite a bit recently, and I believe it now more than ever: It’s options — a feeling of possibility, of not being trapped — that allow us to escape the evilness that is bitterness.
I don’t think I know any bitter entrepreneurs. Certainly, I know some crazy-ass, maladjusted entrepreneurs, but they tend not to be bitter. It’s because they know they always have options.
Think about the most bitter person you know, and check to see if he/she is also one of the people you know who – for whatever reason – is sort trapped…without options.
Don’t let this happen to you.
[*] You want to know why you blog? It’s because when you do, if you’re lucky, you get amazing feedback from people who read what you write; such as this quote from my friend John P. Strohm. Thanks, John.
It’s important to remember this when it feels like: chaos has overtaken reason; ignorance has overtaken enlightenment; ego has overtaken charity; making noise has overtaken making meaning.
Devils win battles, but lose wars.
Resist the pull to become a turncoat; it won’t end well.